Red Flags in Relationships: A Comprehensive Guide

Red Flags in Relationships: A Comprehensive Guide

Chapter 1: Introduction In today's episode, we delve into the topic of Red Flags in relationships. These are vital warning signals for both men and women seeking long-term commitments, indicating aspects to avoid in a potential partner.

Chapter 2: The Significance of Choosing the Right Partner Selecting a life partner is arguably one of the most crucial decisions a person makes. This decision profoundly influences various aspects of life, including future prospects, health, happiness, career success, and family life.

Chapter 3: Understanding Red Flags Red Flags serve as indicators of potential issues in a relationship. They highlight areas that require attention and possibly need to be addressed to ensure a healthy and fulfilling partnership.

Chapter 4: Importance of Recognizing Red Flags It's essential to recognize and prioritize Red Flags based on their significance. Identifying unacceptable traits early on empowers individuals to make informed decisions about the viability of a relationship.

Chapter 5: Dealing with Red Flags Addressing Red Flags requires open communication and willingness to work on improving problematic areas. It's crucial for both partners to be proactive in addressing concerns and seeking solutions.

Chapter 6: Top 10 Red Flags to Watch Out For Exploring the ten most critical Red Flags provides valuable insights into potential relationship challenges and prompts individuals to assess their compatibility with their partner.

Chapter 7: Taking Action Against Red Flags Understanding the implications of each Red Flag empowers individuals to take appropriate action, whether it's setting boundaries, seeking therapy, or reassessing the relationship's viability.

Chapter 8: Conclusion In conclusion, recognizing and addressing Red Flags is essential for fostering healthy and fulfilling relationships. By prioritizing self-awareness and open communication, individuals can navigate potential challenges and build strong, lasting connections.

Chapter 9: Stay Informed and Stay Empowered Continuing to educate oneself about relationship dynamics and Red Flags ensures ongoing personal growth and empowerment. Sharing valuable insights with friends and loved ones contributes to creating a culture of healthy relationships.

Hello, gentlemen and ladies. Today's episode is Red Flags. Red Flags are warning signals for serious men and smart women who say what to avoid if a man is looking for a long-term relationship. Choosing the right life partner, the right woman for a permanent relationship for a man is the most important, really, the most important decision I make in my life. Nothing is so important. This decision affects his future, health, happiness, wealth, career success, having children, raising children. It affects his youth, maturity, his whole life. Red Flags are warning signals for a man. They say what is going wrong, what could be a threat to the future. They inform that there will be work to minimize or eliminate these symptoms. It is worth reading the points I am talking about today. Well, it is worth arranging these red flags according to your table of importance, so I will call it, according to your hierarchy. For everyone, these should be points that are absolutely unacceptable. Then you know what the decision is. If you recognize a man, a friend, such features in your choice, run away, leave. If, on the other hand, you recognize red flags that you have not defined as the most important in your life, which are not on this list, which you are able to accept, which you see that when talking to a woman, explaining to her, she understands and wants to correct them, she understands why they are bad and wants to correct them. Your decision is whether you want to work with this woman on correcting these features that you have noticed and that bother you. The decision belongs to the man. Remember, this man decides about the relationship. The woman decides about access to sex, the man decides about the relationship. Therefore, this choice is so important. But if you choose 3, 4, maybe 5 of these features that are super important to you, super important, then sorry, but working on the 5 most important features for you goes with the goal. This is too much work, this is not the second stage. If a man chooses 3 red flags, features that are super important to him and the woman owns them, sorry, but there is nothing to work on. If, on the other hand, he chooses 3 important features and they are not in the private hierarchy of each man as the most important top, only somewhere further, then you can put in work and you can work. What does a wise woman do when she hears such red flags or identifies herself, dear ladies? Yes, dear ladies, there are a group of good women among you, wounded, lost, deceived by various theories and various practices, how strong and independent you are, when it is not true, when you need a good man in your life, because this is how the world is created and this is how we are created by nature. Well, such a woman, hearing these features, a wise woman, if a man identified her and let her know, she does not get angry, she is looking for help, perhaps therapy is needed, perhaps these are past events. I rhyme beautifully, uncle Pablo. But it is worth working on them, because if it is not 10 out of 10 bad features, and only 2, then maybe we can improve them, maybe you need to go to therapy, maybe you need to identify them yourself, dig into the sources and, being aware of these features, eliminate them for a common, happy life. And it is super difficult for men to find the right partner for a permanent relationship and it is difficult for women to find a man for a permanent relationship. So don't be stupid, don't get angry, listen, analyze and draw positive conclusions. Today I will talk about what is a threat. 10 most important threats in my opinion. We are starting. Red flag number 10 in my private scale of importance. A woman who is sickly looking for attention on social media, of course. Women looking for attention, because this is their currency, this is their fuel, due to having social media, Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, everything where you can show your advantages, your beauty, attracts women like, I'm very sorry, Shambo. Being there and sickly looking for attention, showing yourself to other men, especially being in a relationship, especially starting a permanent relationship, is unacceptable. If a man sees that a woman is sitting on Insta without a break, informing all his orbiters, I will explain and explain. An orbiter is a man who had certain intentions towards a woman, maybe he even got something a long time ago, maybe he never got it, and now all the time, most often he never got it, and now he's circling around this woman all the time, watching photos, liking them, you are beautiful, wonderful, I will send you bouquets of flowers, a heart and so on. This is an orbiter. What is the orbiter waiting for? All the time giving chances. Now, if a woman, being aware of this, enters a permanent relationship, or is already in it, and does not stop posting these photos, the phone is the main source of attention for her, her self-esteem is constantly boosted by likes. If she did not post such photos, or I will not turn my back, and she did not get these likes, it is sad and annoying. This is Red Flag number 10. Man, if you are in a permanent relationship with a woman, you have resigned from other meetings, you are both, it is your duty to inform a woman in a nice and calm way. My dear, please change the settings of your social media applications, but let's make an appointment, because there are proposals for meetings and dates, set to private mode, to which the family and I have access. And only your best friends. The ultimatum is simple. Either we are and we respect each other, because women cannot understand this. How is it, how is it? You are greedy, you are jealous. No, no, no, dear sir, it's not that I'm jealous. The point is that I am territorial. I decided to be my beloved with you. I don't want you to be in applications with the foresail on your forehead. You are no longer a foresail. You should be proud that you are already bought. And she found a buyer, me, your man, who appreciated all your features, who decided to buy with you. Therefore, you no longer tempt other buyers with your gifts. Red flag number 9. Male friendships. My dear, red flag number 9. Male friendships. Gentlemen, if a woman has more friends than you, red flag. There is not even much to discuss. All male-female friendships are subject to sexual desires. Of course, there are some exceptions. Absolute exceptions when there is no sexual tension at all. But these are absolute exceptions. All the guys who are among your female friends will be there for a specific reason. The reason was the sexual train. They wanted to be there because they wanted to. For experience. How did you meet this man? He talked to me. And why did he talk? Tell me for yourself. Do you ever talk to a woman you don't want anything from? Do you talk to the one you just liked? I think it's simple. Returning the situation. All your female friends talked to her because they had a sexual train to her. They didn't talk because they didn't like it, but because they liked it. And now all of them are all around her. She's in a relationship now. These are the guys who are waiting for a fall. In this case, the fall is the first problem in the relationship. Who will the girl write to if you have problems with each other? Comments. Well, she should write to her friend. But if she has friends in her group, she will also write to her friends. What do you think? How should a man act? Oh, my friend. You've always been so good to me. And a hug. And the man is already there. And you must be a friend in the delegation then. Or you actually quarreled and she went to her mom. Or she sleeps with her friend Basia. Please. Don't be fooled, gentlemen. Number nine. Once again. Men are friends. Number eight. Aggressive woman. It has always been a bad sign. But this aggression, however, a man could ever extinguish. In today's gynocentric world, when this woman is an eternal victim. When violence is only a man. When it is said that violence has a male face. This, of course, is not true. Because mental violence has a female face. But to the point. An aggressive woman is a threat to you. You have no way to respond to this aggression. Aggression on the one hand? Nothing. Zero. Zero on the other hand. Physical aggression? Zero. Psychological aggression? Zero. The situation simply looks like this. That men are accused of aggression against women. Very often it is not men who initiate this aggression. Very often aggression is initiated by a woman. Only that a man, due to his physical strength. Also responding to aggression. Well, you know the consequences. Therefore, any signs of aggression on the part of a woman. This is the eighth. Yes. In terms of importance, the red flag. This is a big threat. And you must not underestimate it. If you see such symptoms, inform your loved one. Baby, you can't be aggressive towards me. You can't throw plates, keys. You can't scream. It's simple. These are the rules. Numero siete. I think. Number seven. Alpha widow. Hanging, maintaining relations with her ex-husbands. There is no such thing as maintaining relations with ex-husbands. I don't care. Do they have common businesses? Do they have common interests? Do they have anything else to do? Is there anything else to pick up? Are they just friends and they just go to dinner with you? No. No. Nope. No. Listen to a song. In a moment I may insert a jingle here. Or maybe not. But you know. Sex with my ex. There are such songs. Ha ha ha. Sex with my ex. This is the easiest sex. Do you know why sex is the easiest? Because women are afraid of starting new sexual relations with new men. In case of an accident, this is a safe option. This is my friend. This is my confidant. There are no such relations. The end. Finito. And now the definition of alpha widow. Unfortunately, this is such a red flag that nothing can be done about it. If you see such a red flag as alpha widow. In a moment I will give the definition. This is... Run Forrest, run! And this is running in jumps. Alpha widow is a woman who has lost the most wonderful man she has ever met in her life. The most wonderful. He did everything best. He was clean. He was the wisest. The highest. The strongest. The best in... You can't compare. Most often it is a woman who was left by such a man, such an alpha. Because he had a lot of them. He was God to her. He was everything to her. But he left her. The end. He is gone. In her head, this is an undiscovered Monteveres. I had and I don't have. He was the best. No one can compare him. Gentlemen. Run. If you recognize, and then what? He did it best. He was the best. He mentions him. The relationship was five years ago, and she still remembers. Or I was there once. Or we did something there. No, no. It should be a polyshynel mystery. If I was with someone, I was behind the box of memories and to the closet. There is no such person anymore, there is no relationship, there are no calls, the phone is removed, the contact on social media is removed. An honest woman does not contact her ex. Simple. Number 6. Many sexual partners. And of course feminists say, because if a man can, we can too. No. We are neither equal, nor are we the same, nor do we have the same ease in establishing new sexual relations. For a lady, establishing new relations of this type is so much effort. For a man, you have to be better than all the other guys she has in her environment. It's not that easy. It's not the same. And I heard many of my own colleagues who say, no, it doesn't bother me, it can be like that, the woman is the same as me. It's a massacre, you know. Guys, one of the other. It's not true. You don't understand it. Now, one more piece of information for you, ladies and gentlemen. If a man says so, there is a very good chance that he doesn't think about relations seriously at all. The smile of your ego. The smile of how good you are, how well you are doing, how tolerant you are. Because what does he want to get? Just the same as he boasts that you did before. Jesus, it seems so simple, and so complicated to understand. There are quite interesting studies on this topic, which say, the study was conducted by the Institute for Family Studies. It showed such data that, attention, not met today, but a girl, if she enters a marriage relationship as a girl, she only has a 5% chance of divorce after 5 years of marriage. If she has two partners before marriage, the chance of divorce after 5 years of marriage increases to 30%. The study was stopped on 10 partners. Well, these were not the latest studies, and then it seemed a lot. Now it's not that much again. But with 10 partners, the chance of divorce after 5 years of marriage increased to 35%. So you can count for yourself. Each partner increases the chance of divorce statistically by several percent. This is the truth. The task of a woman is to keep the virginity, that is, to keep a small number of partners. The task of a man is to prove that it is worth it. Men get, women give. Friends, and very important information. Women usually do not count the number of partners they have been with. Extreme sexual contacts, such as One Night Stand, ONS, do not include the so-called Friends with Benefits partners, i.e. he has a friend who comes from time to time as a technician and does not include the adventures that happened on Ibiza, on Majorca, on Crete, on Zakynthos, etc. Women include only those to sexual partners who had a permanent relationship. So sometimes you can hear that four. And his name was 44. Sorry. Okay, let's speed up. Number five. Eternal victim. She does not succeed in finances, she does not succeed in life, she does not succeed in relationships, she does not succeed in work. And most importantly, it is never her fault. There is no such thing as her fault. It is the fault of the environment. I am repressed. By the way, it is based on, you know what, what movement? ISM. It is the fault of the patriarchy. It is the fault of men. It is the fault of the government. It is the fault of the country. It is the fault of the boss. The whole world is against him. This is the first of three symptoms of one of the main red flags. As you can see, I am such an eternal victim and it is never my fault. There is no need to wait. Number four. He must always be right. It's supposed to be like I say, it's supposed to be like I decide. I am a man in this relationship. I wear a portico in this relationship. Does it remind you of something? Isn't it the second feature of the ISM? You can't pay attention to such a woman. You can't show her own mistakes. A lot of women have it today. It's supposed to be the way she wants. She decides where you will go on vacation. She decides which house you will buy. And no one, no one can pay attention to her. Because he will be shouted at and hated. Women define it. I am strong and independent. I am boss bitch. You can not only pet me and support me and praise me. A recognition signal. If you look at what kind of friends this woman has. No offense to different groups. Feminists, lesbians, gays. These are the people who have accepted her as she is. Because she is not suitable for a normal relationship. There must be people who will pet her. And now such a margin. If we were an eternal victim to this. He must be right. They added the embarrassment of men. Because we have a priority in feminism. I must be right. I am an oppressed victim. And I am ashamed of men. With comments like who hurt you. Your mother is a woman. Classic. This is how we get to the red flag number 3. Feminist. Feminists include. Already discussed two features. I must be right. And I am a victim. And to this. And to this. And to this. And to this. Feminist, i.e. who? Well, a woman fighting for women's rights. Which women have no rights. To the question. Which rights do women not have? But she fights. A woman of this type is characterized by the fact that she fights for the rights of, for example, women to abortion. But she does not fight for equal men's rights to decide on this abortion. She hates when the government tries to impose restrictions on abortion. But she supports when the government imposes financial restrictions for men. Such a woman does not realize that the movement she supports and identifies with is bad for good women. This movement does not teach women how to be a woman, a woman desired and wanted by a good man. On the contrary. He denies masculinity. He invents the term toxic masculinity. He adds all the behaviors that are so masculine. And what does he do on the other hand? He teaches and tells women to be men, only their weak version. Because women will never be like men. That is, a man gaining a career is an element of patriarchy. But a woman gaining a career is strong and independent. Go girl! Crazy! Often such a proud feminist epathizes with slogans in the style of I don't need men. Please, even I say in this program that men need women at the right time of their lives, not by force, but they need them because we have to reproduce. This is our goal as a species on Earth. To live and pass on life. The simplest rule. Why complicate it? And such a woman often proposes a man she would like to date if you can't accept me when I'm in the worst condition. You don't deserve me when I'm the best. Dear God! Gentlemen, this is the red flag number three. Very important. And don't believe such nonsense because such comments a woman signals to you that she is lazy and doesn't want to get out of her worst condition. And secondly, she informs you that she brings chaos, problems and all bullshit to your life. Red flag number two. Disagreement of basic needs of the type, but really fundamental at the beginning of every relationship. Please, gentlemen, get along. Do you want to have children? How many do you want to have children? How do you want to raise children? What school should they go to? Do you want to live in an apartment? In the countryside or in the city? You can work on some things, but on the fundamental ones that are your future? If they are divergent, they are divergent. You can get involved and then disperse due to incompatibility of these needs. These things are unchangeable. Love is changeable. Love can end, but these things are permanent. So, number two. Disagreement of basic needs is the red flag number two. And the red flag number one for a woman. Lack or bad relations with the father. And now, why is it so important? It is so important that in these relationships a woman learns male thinking, respect for men. She learns how to treat men, how to talk to men. It is the father who teaches that men need to be respected, that men are necessary, that men treat women well. And now all these women who are raised without fathers, it is not their fault. Lack of a father or a bad relationship. And now look. You are with a woman. You hear her talking to her father on the phone. Is she able to throw the headphones because she got nervous? No respect for a man, for a father, for the first man in her life. How does she talk about her father? Is the father a treasure for her? Is he a cashier? Is he an authority? Very important. So if there is no contact, she is looking for it. Does she despise her father? Because if she despises her father, the first man in her life, she will probably despise you. And now, because a lot of women and a lot of men because we have such fucked up times, now this relationship, even at a distance, is it? Or even otherwise. Does your chosen one realize how important she has lost? Is she ready or has already been to go to therapy in this matter? This is super important. To therapy, maybe not necessarily to a feminized psychologist who is probably very likely also not in a happy relationship, but maybe to a conscious guy, a psychologist. These are super important topics. But I got carried away, gentlemen, but this is so important. So let me remind you, from the tenth. Attention, which cannot be detached from social media and the presentation of naked traces or decolts in these social media. Male friendship. He has more friends than you. Aggression from the woman's side. Alpha widow or maintains relations with the former. Aggression from the woman's side. Eternal victim. Always has to be right. There is no agreement between you in basic, existential matters. He has a broken or lack of relationship with his father, which he should fix. This was, gentlemen, the most important ten. In the second part, I will soon list another ten red flags that should be paid attention to. Again, red flags are not disqualifications. In most cases, these are signals that you have to be able to notice, notice and react appropriately to them. Friend, if you are valuable, you work on yourself, you have a lot to offer for the relationship, then remember, your value is so high that you should have the courage to be able to resign from this relationship at any time. If you see that this relationship will be destructive for you, it is very important. If you are in a relationship because the woman had good traits and during the duration of this relationship you notice that these traits are deteriorating or disappearing, it is also a red flag. It also has to be reacted. Do not let your life lower the level. If you are in a relationship with a good woman, then take care of it. If you have a good woman, develop together and take care of your good relationship. Friend, if you agree, give a like. If you like the content, subscribe. If you know that your friend needs this type of content, please send him a link. All these likes help to increase the range of this type of content on YouTube.

#RedFlags

#RelationshipWarnings

#ChooseWisely

#PartnerSelection

#LifeDecisions

#WarningSignals

#RelationshipHierarchy

#AttentionSeeking

#MaleFriendships

#AlphaWidow

#AggressiveBehavior

#EternalVictim

#RelationshipEquality

#BasicNeeds

#FatherFigure

#TherapyIsKey

#SelfWorth

#RelationshipValue

#HealthyRelationships

#RelationshipRedFlags